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Emília M. Ludovino
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Emília M. Ludovino

Emília M. Ludovino Emília M. Ludovino is an Amsterdam-based international Social and Emotional Intelligence Coach, Master Practitioner of NLP, Reiki Master/Teacher, lifetime practitioner of mindfulness and meditation, author of six books about emotional intelligence, and founder of the SMART FEELINGS LAB. Emília was an Emotional Intelligence Trainer, Coach at UNITAR (United Nations Institute for Training and Research), and an independent trainer, coach, mentor, and consultant worldwide for law firms, law enforcement, private banking, NGOs, hospitals, IT companies, entrepreneurs, and so on. Emília puts emotional intelligence into practice by teaching the difference between thoughts, feelings, and actions with passion and humor—and how these three interact and affect us. She helps participants establish an inner foundation and vision for all dimensions of life and find the necessary balance between the challenges of a hectic career and the inner longing for peace and wellbeing. She helps people find balance in their lives; stop feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or anxious; respond not react; feel confident; and develop their communication and leadership skills, and their relationships. Her aim is to take emotional intelligence to many people as possible, wherever they call her, to support individuals, companies, and communities to flourish and create ripples of awareness, love, compassion, and respect for each other's differences, making a better world.
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Strategies to better manage extroverts and introverts


One of the fundamental differences between extroverts and introverts, in the workplace, is that while introverts think inside their heads, extroverts think out loud. So, while extroverts are talking, they can be working hard to sift through their ideas, to form their opinions and to clarify their thinking. However, the amount of talking involved, and the lack of initial clarity, may annoy other people. What a contrast with introverts who might think quietly to themselves and may leave us feeling frustrated because we don't know what they are thinking. And all the talking that makes the extrovert feel energized, stimulated, and enthusiastic, is draining for introverts. Introverts can also feel that extroverts are wasting their time and feel frustrated, an emotional reaction that may be unhelpful in building a productive working relationship. Extroverts in thinking out loud, may leave people feeling that they cannot be trusted, because...

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Emília M. Ludovino

Emília M. Ludovino Emília M. Ludovino is an Amsterdam-based international Social and Emotional Intelligence Coach, Master Practitioner of NLP, Reiki Master/Teacher, lifetime practitioner of mindfulness and meditation, author of six books about emotional intelligence, and founder of the SMART FEELINGS LAB. Emília was an Emotional Intelligence Trainer, Coach at UNITAR (United Nations Institute for Training and Research), and an independent trainer, coach, mentor, and consultant worldwide for law firms, law enforcement, private banking, NGOs, hospitals, IT companies, entrepreneurs, and so on. Emília puts emotional intelligence into practice by teaching the difference between thoughts, feelings, and actions with passion and humor—and how these three interact and affect us. She helps participants establish an inner foundation and vision for all dimensions of life and find the necessary balance between the challenges of a hectic career and the inner longing for peace and wellbeing. She helps people find balance in their lives; stop feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or anxious; respond not react; feel confident; and develop their communication and leadership skills, and their relationships. Her aim is to take emotional intelligence to many people as possible, wherever they call her, to support individuals, companies, and communities to flourish and create ripples of awareness, love, compassion, and respect for each other's differences, making a better world.
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